When your sex life is reduced to licking up another man's cum, freshly dripped from your wife's cunt, off your marital bed linen… it's game over, friend. Just accept your new role, and place in the hierarchy.
Follow on to my Comment which got submitted for me. About seven years ago before Jan retired you could reach her through her website. No more and the site is shut down. As others have said Jan was/is the nicest person ever. She sent me a pair of her used panties which were divine. Super strong scent which I love. I did pay for them but the email interchange was so nice and enjoyable. I so wish she was still in business.